The problem with blogging about having a hissy fit is often said h.f. occurs a few hours before the blog can actually be created. In that time, a cooler head and a rational mind can often prevail. And/or, a cool quote from Seth Godin can show up in my inbox. From Seth’s post today, "We repeatedly underestimate how important a story is to help us make sense of the world.” Which then caused me to consider the story behind the hissy fit, aka “conniption” fit.
Yes, I am elderly enough to remember the good old days when one rolled into the gas station and heard the pleasant ding-ding as one drove across the ding-ding hose. Decisions at the gas station in those days amounted to “cash or charge,” “leaded or unleaded” and whether or not you wanted your oil checked. Ah, those were the days, weren’t they. Simplicity. And how things have changed.
Now I shall commence to make a list of all the choices we “get” to make at the gas station these days.
1. Will I be paying credit or debit or gift card? 2. Paying at the pump or at the window? 3. Am I a Kroger plus customer? yes or no. 4. If yes, scan card OR enter alternate i.d. number. 5. Do I want a car wash? Yes or no. 6. Now choose one of the three options of gas grade. 7. Do I want to use my gas discount of x cents? yes or no
Only seven short hoops and I am permitted to pump the fuel into my car!
Besides the above, there are many passive questions facing me.
1. Do I want to apply for another credit card that will save me more cents per gallon? 2. Do I want a snack? “Visit the kiosk!” 3. Am I going to believe the warning about my cell phone being able to cause an explosion? 4. Do I care how recently this pump was inspected?
And don’t forget all the questions zinging through my head about my day.
1. Is that man looking at my hair because I am really having a bad hair day? 2. Will I have time to put everything in the car before I have to leave? 3. Which way should I go home? 4. Will they reverse that fine? 5. What kind of snacks are in the kiosk? 6. And so on and so on.
Here’s what got me today.
See #7 above? It’s always a little surprise to find out whether I have any discount at all, or maybe 10 cents per gallon. Today, surprise! I had a 40 cent per gallon discount available. However, I also had NEW CHOICES.
1. Use my discount as is. 2. Use part of my discount. 3. Don’t use my discount.
I mean, really.
And Seth’s comment reminded me that it is my story about this that dictates my response. My story this morning was that these were unnecessary choices, just one more wildly unnecessary choice in a world filled with way too many choices -- my grocery store has, what, 300 different amalgamations of pasta, and by pasta, I am only referring to dry pasta in a box, not all the mixes, prepared foods, and deli offerings. My story is that these are unnecessary choices and unwelcome. But would I really be happy if I went into a story and there were 4 different types of pasta. I would say honestly, at this point, no. I’m used to having boocoo choices about all kinds of minor things. Maybe there are a lot of people who complained to Kroger and said they didn’t want to use the entire discount at one time. I wish I could understand under what conditions that might occur. But, it is what it is and now I get to also decide whether to use my discount as is, a portion thereof, or save it for a rainy day.
So, I’m changing my story just a bit. I feel blessed that I have the freedom to make so many choices in my life. I also recognize that there are very important areas where the choices are limited and sometimes one is as bad as the others (see: politics). But in the hope that this new option at the Kroger Fuel Center makes someone else’s life easier, I accept it with grace and will continue to wait for the fun surprise of finding out how many cents per gallon I might get as a discount today.
(But sometimes I still think it’s fun to throw a hissy fit now and again, as long as it doesn’t spill over onto innocent bystanders.)